A poster carried through a march showing the education minister with his head in his hands, captioned Ek baap ka hoga toh resign karega
Curatorial Essay

The Lighthouse · Album 009

Ek Baap
Ka Hoga Toh

A minister in a pink hair bow, a packet of nappies, and a placard about daddy issues. What the students were really accusing the state of.

A poster carried through a march shows the education minister with his head in his hands, and underneath it, in white type: Ek baap ka hoga toh resign karega.

The line is untranslatable in the way that matters. Word for word it says: if he is one father's, he will resign. What it means, in the mouth of anybody who grew up with it, is closer to if he is anyone's son at all, he will resign — a taunt about legitimacy, about whether a man was raised by someone who taught him what shame is. It is a schoolyard line. It is also the most serious sentence in this archive, because it does not ask the minister to be a better administrator. It asks whether he had a father.

Once you have noticed that, you start seeing it everywhere.

A hand-lettered placard in Hindi, signed with the hashtag Daddy Issues
Photograph: from the Democracy by Design archive
"जिनको बाप का प्यार नहीं मिलता वो, नेताओं को बाप बना लेते हैं!! #DaddyISSUSES"

People who never got a father's love end up making politicians into their fathers. Written by hand in red, in Devanagari, and then signed off — underlined twice — with an English hashtag. It is a diagnosis of the other side, of the people who cheer, and it is delivered in the register of a therapy caption. The spelling of the hashtag is wrong. It was not corrected before it was carried.

This is the argument the protest kept returning to, and it is not the argument the news reported. The news reported a demand: a leaked paper, a cancelled exam, a minister's resignation. The placards, in enormous numbers, are about something else. They are about a relationship — a state that had asked to be loved as a parent, and had then failed at the one thing a parent is for.

So the students took the metaphor away from him and inverted it.

A printed parody of a nappy packet held up in a plastic sleeve at a night march
Photograph: from the Democracy by Design archive

A packet of nappies, brand name adjusted by one letter, clipped into a plastic sleeve so the rain would not get it. India's most trusted pants. The whole gag is one letter deep and it does not need a caption, because the audience for it has stood in a chemist's shop and seen the real packet. If the state wants to be the family, fine: here is which member of the family you are.

A large printed poster of the education minister with a pink bow added to his hair, addressed in baby talk
Photograph: U_D · from the Democracy by Design archive
"KUCHUPUCHU RESIGN KAR DOO NAWW! MERE PYAARE PYAREE KUCHUPUCHU"

A pink bow has been added to the minister's hair in Photoshop. Kuchupuchu is not a word; it is the sound Indian adults make at babies, the same class of noise as coochie-coo, and there is no dignified way to be addressed by it. The elongated vowels — doo, naww, pyaaree — are doing the work of a voice. Read it aloud and you are baby-talking a cabinet minister into standing down.

It would be easy to file all of this under mockery, and mockery is cheap. But look at what is actually being withheld. Every one of these placards refuses the register the state had chosen for itself. Nobody on this pavement is shouting tyrant. They are saying: you are not our father, you are our toddler, and we are the ones cleaning up.

There is one more turn, and it is the bitterest.

A pink sheet of paper held against the sky, hand-lettered in Roman-script Hindi
Photograph: Sabari · from the Democracy by Design archive
"Bade bade desho mein aisi chote chote bacho koi nai marte ha—"

The original line is one of the most quoted in Hindi cinema: bade bade deshon mein aisi choti choti baatein hoti rehti hain — in big countries, small things like this keep happening. It is said in Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge to make a girl feel better on a train. It has been a shrug for thirty years, the thing an uncle says when you have lost something and he does not want to hear about it.

Somebody has changed four words. In big countries, small children like this don't just die. The shrug is still in the sentence — it is the same rhythm, the same setup, the audience is already smiling before they finish reading — and then the last word arrives and there is nowhere to put the smile. The handwriting is uneven and runs out of room at the right-hand edge. It was made on a pink sheet, probably the night before, by somebody who thought of it and could not not make it.

Around twenty families lost a child to suicide in the weeks after the leak — the number the compensation talks were conducted over, and the number this archive has been able to stand behind. That is what the changed word is carrying, on a piece of paper held up against a white sky.

The family register runs the whole length of this archive, and it does not resolve. In one photograph a printed Bhagat Singh addresses the crowd as मेरे बच्चों — my children — and the crowd accepts it, from him, because he was twenty-three when they hanged him and has the standing. In the next, a minister is a baby in a nappy. The protest was perfectly willing to be somebody's children. It had simply worked out whose.

About this essay: the photographs are from the Democracy by Design archive, contributed by Sabari, U_D and contributors who asked not to be named. Dharmendra Pradhan resigned as education minister on 25 July 2026; the 3 May paper and its cancellation nine days later are recorded at 2026 NEET controversy, and the Jantar Mantar occupation at 2026 Delhi Jantar Mantar protests. The line altered on the pink placard is from Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge (1995). Faces of people in the crowd are covered; faces printed on the posters are not, because they are the work.
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